Yesterday was a better day. Though there were moments of "don't leave, I'm scared" and "i don't want to go back in our hotel room", and " i don"t wanna use the potty", " NO way in heck am i going in that bath tub", and "mama I don't want baba to hold me" it was mostly a day where Lucy showed her sweet, giggly side. All I had to do was be silly and she ate it up.
Smile 1 - I will give you a straight smile and not show you any teeth coz I am holding back.
Smile 2 - I will show you some teeth but not a full smile coz I am still holding back, but my eyes are smiling
Smile 3 - I will giggle, show full smile and all my teeth. Life is good!
Lucy does not have words yet, but does make noises to show discontent. Her loud squeak is I DON'T LIKE THAT!
I remember when we got Kyla that out of no practice holding a 4 month old all day, my muscles in by back and arms were killing me after a few days. With a new born you build up those muscles as the baby grows. Well the same thing happened yesterday as my guess is she is about 22 to 24 lbs and wants to be held by me quite a bit. She played strange with Troy a few times yesterday and just screamed. We tried switching off a bit yesterday so I could spend more time with Kyla and Troy could connect with Lucy, but when walking the streets and your baby is screaming like you have just hurt her, well this is not good. Plus it really puts Lucy in a state. She knows what she is doing coz the moment she is back in my arms, she is smiling again.
Kyla's adjustment to having a little sister is slow. As Lucy is not as mobile in the hotel room, Kyla plays around her. Kyla covers her ear when Lucy cries and she yells TOO LOUD! Bath time together is not fun yet as Lucy is terrified of the bath. Kyla wants to sit on my lap at the same time as Lucy to share her mama.
We have met a few other families that are staying in the same hotel. We are all going through different stages of discovery with our new babies and all have a history with adoption. Sharing the stories is comforting as we all have different reasons why we are here. One amazing family has had 9 kids, 5 biological and this is their 4th adoption. I can see why, they are loving people who have room in their lives and hearts to provide love and support to these waiting list of kids of China.
Kyla has made friends with a little girl Sophie who is 8. They are so cute together.
Yesterday we spent the morning at the People's Park with our guide. It was good to get out of the hotel room and get some air. Kyla did her best to play in the parks which was mostly busy with adults doing the exercise and dancing. Lucy walks as long as she is holding on to our finger. Her legs are not as strong as they should be so wants the comfort of balance.
We went to Walmart and Troy's comment was...this would do so great in Richmond. It was awesome.
I will post some great pictures later.